What is wellbeing coaching?

A wellbeing coach is a professional coach who takes a holistic approach to helping their clients live healthy and fulfilled lives. Rather than concentrate on one problem, they work with their clients to identify difficulties or issues in all areas of their life (Rosser, J. 2021).

Ryff and Singer (2008) tell that wellbeing includes aspects of subjective wellbeing, such as happiness, life satisfaction (Diener, 1984) as well personal matters such as self-acceptance, purpose in life, environmental mastery, positive relationships, personal growth and autonomy.

The holistic approach that they use considers the whole person, including their physical, emotional, social, and spiritual wellbeing. It focuses on the bigger picture and interconnectedness rather than merely on individual parts of a person’s life.

Each person comes to a wellbeing coach with a different set of needs and it’s the coach’s role to ensure that they use a person-centred approach. A person with mental health issues will have a different requirement from the coach than someone who would like to improve their physical fitness.

Wellbeing coaching takes a structured approach and is predominantly future focused and goal-oriented, so participants have a clear vision of what they are working towards. Wellbeing coaching also takes a non-directive approach meaning that the person’s views are listened to and considered on their journey to better wellbeing.

As explained in Co-Active Coaching “The coach and coachee have equal, though different, roles. They are co-active in the relationship, so they are collaborators, working together for the benefit of the coachee” (Kimsey-House et al., 2018).

A wellbeing coach may use signposting, when appropriate, as they know local services that may be helpful to the person that they are working with. They may also offer suggestions of book recommendations; a link to a website, podcast, or video; therapy; or a referral to another practitioner for specialist support.

What are the benefits of wellbeing coaching? 

There are many potential benefits to working with a wellbeing coach.

These include:

1. Improved mental and emotional health

Wellbeing coaching can help people identify and address underlying issues impacting their mental and emotional wellbeing. This can lead to reduced stress, anxiety, and depression, and improved overall mental health.

2. Better physical health 

Wellbeing coaching can improve a person’s physical health. This may involve developing healthy habits such as exercise, healthy eating, and getting enough sleep.

3. Increased self-awareness

Wellbeing coaching can help someone become more self-aware, and gain better understanding of their own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. This can lead to improved self-esteem and confidence, as well as better relationships with others.

4. Improved goal-setting and achievement

Wellbeing coaching can help a person set realistic and achievable goals and develop strategies to achieve those goals. This can help them make progress in areas of life where they may have previously struggled.

5. Improve overall quality of life

Ultimately, the goal of wellbeing coaching is to help someone achieve optimal levels of wellbeing in all areas of their life.

References:

Kimsey-House, H. et al. (2018) Co-active coaching: Changing Business, Transforming lives. London: Nicholas Brealey Publishing.

Rosser, J. (2021) What is a wellbeing coach?Success Stream. Available at: https://www.success-stream.co.uk/what-is-a-wellbeing-coach (Accessed: 25 September 2024).

Ryff, C. and Singer, B. (2008) ‘Know Thyself and Become What You Are: A Eudaimonic Approach to Psychological Well-Being’, Journal of Happiness Studies, 9(1), pp.13-39. DOI: 10.1007/s10902-006-9019-0.

What is a holistic approach? (2024) Principles for effective support. Available at: https://www.health.nsw.gov.au/mentalhealth/psychosocial/principles/Pages/holistic.asp (Accessed: 25 September 2024).

What is wellbeing coaching? an easy guide (2024) RSS. Available https://www.bravobenefits.co.uk/blog/what-is-wellbeing-coaching-an-easy-guide (Accessed: 26 September 2024).

The Power of Reiki healing

Reiki is a form of energy healing with roots in ancient cultures and is a complementary therapy used worldwide.

Originating in Japan, “Reiki” is a word that means “universal life energy.” Reiki is a healing technique in which an attuned therapist places their hands on or near the client’s body and sends energy to the client to activate the body’s ability to heal itself and restore balance (Zandro S, et al. 2022).

In the early 20th century, Reiki was developed by Mikao Usui, a Japanese Buddhist monk. Usui discovered that Reiki could assist physical, mental, and emotional well-being (Triplett, S. 2024).

Reiki is a spiritual practice that addresses the person as a whole—body, mind, and spirit. It encourages self-awareness, introspection, and personal growth, all of which are part of a spiritual journey (Tiller, J. 2023). Clients should be aware that although reiki—like yoga or meditation—may have roots in spiritual practices from long ago. Modern reiki is not classed as a religion. Practitioners and clients come from all walks of life and belief systems (Forbes, 2024)

Experiences during a Reiki session vary from person to person. Some people experience immediate and dramatic results, while others may notice more subtle benefits over time. Reiki promotes relaxation and aims to enhance the natural power of the body to heal itself. Several studies indicate that using Reiki leads to a decrease in symptoms related to illness, hypertension, anxiety, depression, sleep disorders, mood disorders, and stress (Paiva Morero JA, et al. 2021).

While Reiki can easily be done in just about any location, a typical Reiki session occurs in a relaxing environment or treatment room. A conversation happens before the session, as Reiki is often practiced with a specific intention, such as promoting healing, reducing pain, or fostering emotional well-being.

Practitioners note clients usually feel relaxed after a session, but some feel energised or emotional depending on the nature of the problem the Reiki was focused on.

If you have questions or want to book a reiki session, please email erawellbeing@outlook.com.

References:

Paiva Morero JA, et al. (2021). Effects of reiki on mental health care.
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/352410172_effects_of_reiki_on_mental_health_care_a_systematic_review

Reiki: What it is, techniques, benefits, risks, and more (medicalnewstoday.com)

Triplett, S. (2024, September 20). Reiki. Encyclopedia Britannica. https://www.britannica.com/science/Reiki

Tiller, J. (2023) Is reiki spiritual? unravelling the deep connection between Reiki and spirituality, Reiki Scape. Available at: https://reikiscape.com/is-reiki-spiritual-unraveling-the-deep-connection-between-reiki-and-spirituality. (Accessed: 24 September 2024).

What Is Reiki? Benefits and Risks (healthline.com)

What is reiki and how does it work? (2024) Forbes. Available at: https://www.forbes.com/health/wellness/what-is-reiki/ (Accessed: 24 September 2024).

Zandro S, et al. (2022). Does reiki benefit mental health symptoms above placebo?
https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.897312/full

Anxious to relaxed: effective breathing exercises as a natural remedy for anxiety

As a health and wellbeing coach, I often find that one of the most influential and yet overlooked tools for mental health management is breathing exercises. In today’s fast-paced, stress-driven environment, anxiety is more prevalent than ever.

While many people turn to medication or professional therapy—which are both valid approaches—simple breathing exercises offer an accessible and immediate way to cope. This comprehensive guide will delve into the science and technique behind calming your mind through breath control, aiming to alleviate symptoms of both anxiety and depression.

The Importance of Breathing in Anxiety Management

The Mind-Body Connection: How Breathing Affects Your Mental State

Breathing is a natural, unconscious activity, yet the way we breathe can significantly affect our emotional and mental states. Quick, shallow breaths can trigger a ‘fight or flight’ response, intensifying anxiety. On the other hand, slow, deep breaths have the opposite effect—relaxing the mind and body. Moreover, habitual mouth-breathing due to stress or medical conditions can contribute to feelings of anxiety, as it often leads to chest tightness and diaphragm strain.

The Science Behind Breathing Exercises for Anxiety

Conscious breathing exercises offer a practical way to divert focus away from stressors, thereby reducing symptoms of anxiety. These exercises lower heart rate and blood pressure, signaling to the body that it’s time to relax. Studies have also indicated that regulated breathing can release endorphins, which act as natural mood lifters.

Watch this video tutorial for more information on the science of breathing

Popular Breathing Techniques to Reduce Anxiety

Diaphragmatic Breathing: The Key to Deep Relaxation

One of the most straightforward yet effective tools for managing stress and anxiety is “diaphragmatic” or “belly breathing.” This technique involves deep inhalation through the nose, filling the diaphragm and expanding the belly. Exhale slowly through the nose while bringing the belly back towards the spine. When performed correctly, diaphragmatic breathing allows for fuller, more calming breaths, counteracting the tendency to breathe shallowly when stressed..

How to Make Breathing Exercises Part of Your Daily Routine

Start Small, Make It a Habit

Committing to long sessions can be daunting, but even a mere five minutes per day can yield noticeable benefits. Integrate these exercises into your daily routine as you would with brushing your teeth or making your bed. Personally, I begin each morning with five minutes of ‘belly breathing,’ setting a calming tone for the rest of the day.

Conclusion: Reclaim Your Peace Through Breathwork

Anxiety is a complex issue that often necessitates a multifaceted treatment approach. Although breathing exercises are not a substitute for medical treatment, they can complement it by providing immediate relief. By harnessing the power of controlled breathing, you can regain balance, peace, and a greater sense of control over your emotional well-being.

References

For further assistance, you can book in for a health and wellbeing session.

Feel free to reach out to me via DM on Instagram: Amy_janeliving if you have any questions or need advice on integrating breathing exercises into your lifestyle for better mental health.

Why is Touch So Important For Our Well-being?

During the COVID-19 pandemic, many of us were forced to limit our human interactions, especially touch. The implications of this on our well-being cannot be ignored.

Touch is vital to our wellbeing. Soothing and safe touch can provide a sense of safety, promote relaxation, and evoke positive emotions.

Research shows that when we are in contact with another person, it is not just a physical event, but an emotional experience. For example, hugging a loved one not only creates physical contact, but also evokes emotional feelings towards that person.

Touch is an experience that involves both the body and mind. Without touch, problems can arise in the brain, body, and social relationships. When we are in contact with another, the brain releases specific chemicals that can lead to the reduction of stress, pain, and depression.

Oxytocin, a blood chemical released through friendly or nurturing touch, helps us feel more trusting and trustworthy. It is associated with social engagement and maternal behaviors, contributing to healthy relationships and social-emotional wellbeing.

However, not all touch is beneficial. Negative touch can be uninvited, unwelcome, unexpected, and invasive. When this kind of touch happens, it can cause shock, agitation, and dislocation of emotions. Traumatic touch can trigger the fight, flight, or freeze response.

In conclusion, touch is a crucial aspect of our well-being. Soothing and safe touch can evoke positive emotions, while negative touch can be damaging. Therefore, we should be mindful of our connections and ensure that it promotes well-being for ourselves and others.

You can read more about this here:

https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/trauma/fight-flight-freeze-how-to-recognize-it-and-what-to-do-when-it-happens/

Article by Amy Skentelbery

The Importance of the Sun in Our Lives

The sun is an essential part of our lives and greatly influences our cultures, religions, and practices. Throughout history, various cultures have worshipped it as a deity, and its importance cannot be overstated.

Without the sun, life on earth would not be possible. The sun is the source of all energy on earth, and it powers all living organisms.

The Effect of the Sun on Mind and Body

Studies have shown that the sun affects both the mind and the body. The sun’s rays are necessary for producing vitamin D in the body, which is essential for bone health and a strong immune system. However, many people avoid sun exposure due to fear of skin cancer, which has resulted in an epidemic of vitamin D deficiency.

Having a vitamin D deficiency is associated with various psychiatric and immune-related disorders and is now recognised as one of the most common medical conditions worldwide.

The Impact of Indoor Jobs and Vitamin D Deficiency

Another reason people may not go outside as much as they should is because of their jobs, which keep them indoors for extended periods. Office jobs, for example, can limit the amount of sunlight exposure people get during the day.

The lack of exposure to natural light can lead to a variety of health problems, including poor bone development, heart disease, and cancer.

The Condition of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)

Some people are so affected by the weather and sunlight that they develop a condition called seasonal affective disorder (SAD). This disorder is similar to normal depression, but it occurs repetitively at a particular time of year, usually starting in the autumn or winter and improving in the spring.

The severity of SAD varies from person to person, but for some, it can have a significant impact on their day-to-day life.

The Positive Effects of Sunlight on Mood and Memory

Sunlight has also been shown to affect mood and memory. Studies have found that pleasant weather improves mood and increases cognition in the spring because people have been deprived of such weather during the winter.

However, bad weather can increase individual productivity by eliminating distractions resulting from good weather, as when the sun is out, people in general wish to be outdoors.

The Relationship Between Sunlight and Human Behavior

The sun affects all areas of our lives, and it has even been discovered that the weather affects relationships.

A study concluded that a restaurant waitress was more likely to receive a tip if the sun was out. This shows that the weather can subtly but significantly impact human behaviour.

Maintaining Health and Wellbeing with Sun Exposure

The sun affects both the mind and the body, and we must ensure that we get enough exposure to it to maintain our health and wellbeing.

While it is important to protect our skin from UV radiation, we should not avoid sun exposure altogether. We must find a balance between getting enough exposure to the sun’s rays and protecting ourselves from its harmful effects.

Article by Amy Skentelbery